Sis, let’s talk about something real—community. We weren’t meant to do this life thing alone, but for some of us, asking for help feels harder than a 12-hour shift with no lunch break. Whether it’s past trauma, fear of being a burden, or just sheer independence, many of us have convinced ourselves that we HAVE to do it all. But let me tell you right now: that is a lie.

Even Jesus rolled with a squad. If the Son of God had disciples and didn’t walk this earth alone, what makes us think we should?

Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 – Two are better than one… If either of them falls down, one can help the other up.

Why You Need a Support System

Life as a single mom with our background is not for the weak. The long shifts, the emotional toll, and then coming home to a child who needs your full attention? Whew! It’s a lot. And trying to juggle it all alone will have you running on empty real quick.

We were not created to just survive—we are meant to thrive ……

John 10:10 – I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.

And thriving starts with building a strong, supportive village.

Where to Find Your People

1. Church & Small Groups
   If you’re not already plugged into a local church, sis, what are you waiting for? Many churches offer Bible study groups, mom groups, and even childcare during services. There’s something so powerful about surrounding yourself with other faith-filled women who get it.
2. Fitness & Activity Groups
   You’re already trying to stay active (because let’s be real, we’re trying to keep up with these kids and not feel like we ran a marathon just walking up the stairs). Whether it’s a running club, a pilates class, or even just taking walks in the park, these are great places to meet like-minded women.
3. Other Parents
   Your child’s activities—whether it’s sports, dance, or just a Saturday at the playground—are full of other moms who are also looking for community. Sometimes, all it takes is a simple “Hey, we should get coffee sometime!” to start a new friendship.
4. Hiring Support is STILL Support
   Sometimes, our village isn’t made up of friends and family but paid professionals—and that’s OKAY. Grocery delivery, meal services, house cleaners, babysitters—these are all resources that help lighten the load so you can focus on what matters most. There is no shame in making your life easier.  Proverbs 31:17 – She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks.

Let’s Break the Cycle

We have to stop equating “asking for help” with weakness. In fact, true strength is knowing when you need support and being humble enough to receive it. You are not a burden, you are a blessing. And guess what? You deserve to be poured into just as much as you pour into others.

Final Thoughts & A Prayer for You

Sis, I see you. You are doing an amazing job, even on the days when it doesn’t feel like it. Your hard work, your sacrifices, your love—it does not go unnoticed.

Let’s pray:

Heavenly Father, Thank You for my sister reading this. Thank You for the strength You have placed within her and for the love she gives to those around her. Lord, remind her that she is never alone, that You are always with her, and that You have placed people in her path to help carry her burdens. Give her the courage to seek support and the wisdom to recognize the village You are building around her. May she walk into this new week feeling refreshed, empowered, and full of Your grace. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Go be a blessing this week, sis!