Alright Nurse Mom, let’s talk about it. Whether it’s your very first simulation, your first time providing patient care, or the dreaded first SBAR report (cue dramatic music ). Those “firsts” can feel like your heart is about to leap out of your scrubs. But listen here, Sis… I gotchuu!
Step 1: Take a Breath
No one — and I mean no one — gets it right the first time. Nursing isn’t microwave popcorn; it takes time, practice, and repetition. So before you spiral, Pause. Inhale. Exhale. Organize your thoughts. Control what’s in your sphere, and release the rest to God.
Remember 2 Timothy 1:7 (NIV) “For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.”
You got this, sis.
Step 2: Remind Yourself — This is a Learning Experience
When you’re new, it’s easy to feel like a burden asking for help. But guess what? That’s literally why preceptors, charge nurses, and educators exist! If you’re not asking questions, that’s the red flag. Nursing is a team sport, not a solo mission. Lean into your resources and let them guide you — you’ll be better for it.
Step 3: Stay Organized in the Chaos
The key to thriving in the middle of mass chaos? Organization. Don’t get caught slipping because you tried to copy OG Nurse Sue who somehow thrives with scribbles on a sticky note. Nope, not yet sis. When you’re just starting, grab yourself a solid report sheet. My personal favorite? Moxie PRN (not sponsored, just obsessed). I’ve even gifted it to new nurses because it’s reusable, durable, and keeps your brain from short-circuiting mid-shift.
Step 4: Remember Nursing is an Evolving Career
One of the most beautiful parts of this career is that you will never stop learning. Every day brings new lessons. No two shifts are the same (which is equal parts hilarious and exhausting, let’s be real ). Embrace this season you’re in, knowing that one day you’ll be the experienced nurse precepting the next generation — and you’ll be the resource they look up to.
My Final Comment for the week! :
Sis, keep your head up and your heart steady. You’re not expected to have it all figured out, you’re expected to grow. And growth? It takes repetition, humility, and a whole lot of grace (plus coffee, let’s be honest). So breathe, lean in, and walk boldly. God’s already equipped you for this journey.
With Love,
Sanjé
